Why Not YOU?

I want to ask you something.

Why not you?

We often stand at the edge of our dreams and ask a quiet, heavy question: “Why me?” Why should I get the opportunity? This question comes from a place of old stories, stories that say we are not ready, not good enough.

But what if we turned that question inside out? What if, instead of “Why me?" we began to as, “Why not me?”

“Why not me?” looks for a chance to begin. “Why me?” looks for reason to fail. The truth is, the world is not closed room where only special people get an invitation. It is an open space where the doors are often opened by those who simply decide to walk up and turn the handle.

Stop Asking “Why Me?”

The question “Why me?” is usually asked in times of hardship. When problem aries, it is a natural human reaction to feel singled out by difficulty.

But this question assumes that good life should be easy track. The weight we feel is not a punishment, it is the weight of strength being built inside us.

Consider a person who carries this question like a stone in his pocket. Every setback makes him reach for the stone, asking again, “Why me?” This habit keeps his attention fixed on the problem and his ow perceived misfortune. To move forward, he must drop the stone. He must accept the challenges are part of the journey for everyone.

Be Delusional (In the Best Way)

Here is a thought that might sound strange:

A little bit of delusion can be a useful tool. We are not talking about ignoring reality or fact. We are talking about the kind of “delusion” that allows a person to believe in a future that does not yet exist.

All great creations: a building, a business, a book existed in someone’s mind long before they existed in the world. to others, that early vision might have seemed like a delusion. This useful delusion is the act of holding a picture of your success in your mind so clearly that it stars to feel possible, and then inevitable.

When logic says, “You have no experience", delusion whispers, “Then I will learn”. When history says, “You have failed before,” delusion replies, “That was the previous chapter.”

Believe Before You Have Proof

The world operated on proof. We want to see evidence before we invest, a sign before we commit. But the most important journeys begin in the opposite direction. They begin with belief first.

Belief is the fuel that lets us start the engine when the tank of proof is completely empty.

Think of belief as a small light in a dark room. We cannot see the entire room yet, but the light allows us to take the first step. Then another. With each step, we see a little more, and our belief grow stronger from our own action.

We do not get proof and then believe: we believe and then, through our action, we create the proof for ourselves and for others.

So, we return to the simple question: Why not you ? Is there a law of the universe that says you are disqualified? Is there a real, concrete barrier that cannot be moved? Or is the main barrier a trout we have agreed to tell ourselves about our own limits?

We must trade the tired question of “Why me?” for the bold declaration of “Why not me?” We must be courageously “delusional” about our potential, and we must be willing to believe in our own journey long before the world offers its proof.

The only question left is the one you ask yourself. Choose the question that opens the door.

Quick question for you

When was the last time you doubted yourself?

Just reply and tell me.